Saturday, March 31, 2012

Day 11, 12, 13: China and Shanghai

backtrack blog...

due to some setbacks and a deadline to reach Hong Kong by March 24, we had to zip through the northern part of China by overnight bus and train.  the only things i can say about mainland China are landscapes seen and impressions felt through dirty windows.
overnight sleeper bus
dad sleeping
dinner stop.  where we had to scarf down dinner in 10 minutes.
China is huge.  and the people quite aggressive (at the stations at least).

the suburbs, there seems to be a lot of them, are a bit desolate.
yet big, brick, block buildings (BBBB) are always in construction...while the huge BBBB next door over still has empty and dirtied store spaces in them.  there's something sad about this situation, and maybe it's just me, but i sense a sort of longing or hope that the town will eventually flourish.
not the best example
the countryside though, seems a bit more natural.  natural not just in the sense that there's more green, but also in the fact that the amount/style of buildings, homes, vehicles, roads, and people seem to make more sense.  less BBBB's but homes/huts made of wood and cement with roofs shaped to fit the weather.  during daylight, men/women, old/young are farming, still using water buffaloes to plow their land, lugging crop in two baskets hung over their shoulders by a pole, and when it comes evening, you see them hanging out with family on their porches.

a quick 12-hour stop in Shanghai where we got tricked into getting an expensive taxi which took us to a train station far far away...when the actual station we needed to be at was right in front of where the bus had landed.  major chaos in getting to the correct (and original) departing station, not enough cash on hand upon purchasing the ticket, catching Reiko and Eri Masunaga at the airport for a quick "hello," getting "shampooed" at a local salon, walking down Yoen, and catching the direct train to Hong Kong at 6pm.  people really love to hang their clothes on trees and balconies here.
how the heck?
chair salesman (and woman)
school trip
line to get through the gate.  we had to learn the hard way, how to not let others cut in.

it was dad's decision not to travel by air, and as much as possible to use the cheapest transportation available.
our first bus ride was 17 hours, followed by a train ride - 20 hours.  it's quite boring at first, especially after the lights turn out and there's nothing you can really do other than to talk to yourself.  you get used to it though, and i realized i hadn't had the time (nor put in the effort) to hear my own voice for a long long time...was it in college?  i don't know.  but the time was quite valuable.
also, travelling by land puts you on the same ground as the landscape and people.  this seems to make everything more real.  the hours spent on the long long rides allow me feel the vastness of the land rather than seeing it on a map.  it may seem like a waste of time to not really doing anything, sometimes i get restless, but it's been worth it so far.
as we head south, dad notices something that i didn't even care to look at.
"the flowers are blooming."  and he was right.
as we traveled further south, it seemed like we were fast-forwarding time and hurrying ourselves into Spring. maybe human's have already invented the time machine :)
hard-sleeper (left is dad, right is old man)

and speaking of dad, we shared our hard-bed room on the train with a man and his parents.  the aggressiveness of the people in China is scary to me at times, but it's full of life force.  and i see strongly that they place so much importance on family and continuity of life.  it was so nice to see the man taking care of his 80+ year-old father who slept in the bed next to my dad's.

Monday, March 26, 2012

Day 8, 9, 10: Korea


backtrack blog...
at Hakata Ferry Pier

got on the jetfoil from Hakata to Pusan (3-hour ride) and arrive at our first "foreign" land.
thought it'd be simple to navigate through trains, buses, and signals, but no.  once we got out of the international ferry terminal, most everything was written in hangul, and we had to be like kids and play a game of matching lines, squares, and circles to find the correct destinations and routes.

first thing i realized upon entering the train: it smells like garlic.
not raw nor cooked, but garlic that seeps through the pores after being digested by a human being.  it wasn't gross or anything, 'twas just how it was.  in a day or two, i too will be seeping garlic from my pores.
first train in Pusan

we get to the hostel, go out to lunch at the local town, get a huge meal of bbq pork + naengmyun for less than 5 dollars/person,
incredibly cheap and yummy food
explore,
nap, do research on our next destination (proving to get harder and more stressful by the day), and head out to the city at night with fellow hostellers.
dad excited to hang out with the young ones (me too)
at the first restaurant, they served us a pot of makkoli (korean rice wine) which then you water down with Sprite (or the Korean version of it).  you keep chugging the drink in a bowl-like cup, as you take shots of soju whenever the guys want to say cheers.  fun times.
hostellers

the next day, dad and i woke up before everyone else at the hostel and took off in stealth as we visited one of the UN World Heritage sites: Bulguksa temple in the Geongsang province.
we got to the site around noontime, and headed towards the restaurant area which was obviously established to serve tourists.  the 15 or so restaurants all looked very quiet.  before we could get to any of them, an old lady who was standing on the street corner spoke to us in Japanese and quickly pulled us into her empty restaurant down the hill.  before we knew it, she was cooking up a huge meal of dolsot bibimbap.  after serving the food hurriedly, she ran back to the same street corner to catch some more tourists getting off the next bus.
the meal was great, and upon paying the bill, dad asked if we could leave our heavy backpacks with her while we explored the temple.  "sure sure sure," she replies, "wow great!" dad says, and although i felt a bit skeptical, we entrusted our bags with the lady.

we climbed for about 10 minutes to get to the entrance of Bulguksa.  just as we were looking around to purchase entry tickets, an old man stops us and says, "you two left your backpacks at the restaurant right?  i saw you, i even saw you go into the bathroom at the bottom of the hill, here's what you have to do from here: go over to that counter, buy tickets, take a good look at the temple for about 1.5 hours, head to that bus station over there by 2:40, take bus #12, go up to see the big buddha, and then come back in time for your train to Seoul.  oh, and look, i have some extra time right now, so let me explain to you all the important sights within this temple!"  and so he does for about 10 minutes, explaining in detail the historical and cultural meaning of every aspect of the temple and the layout of the land.
dad listens carefully, as i get worried more and more about our bags..."he saw us?  he followed us up the hill?  he's telling us to take our time?"  the thought lingers for a bit, but we enter the temple and i forget about our bags for the next hour...
we realize there's not enough time to catch the KTX (high-speed train) to Seoul if we visit the huge Buddha, so we head back down to the restaurant.  my worries come back and i imagine a scene shady-man and the lady-cook going through our backpacks searching for valuable.  "i'll catch them red-handed..."
we get to the restaurant, the place is now packed, and our bags are sitting there exactly where we put them a couple hours ago.
we say our thanks, give the lady a tip and as we leave, we find the old man playing with a kid next door.  turns out he was the shopkeeper of a souvenir store and sometimes volunteers as a tour guide for the temple.

for a moment, i regret being suspicious of the two.  i know i need to be extra careful taking care of my dad, i've also read about so many horror stories, but i don't want to keep traveling suspecting everyone who approaches us with kindness.  i feel a bit torn as to how i should proceed in my travels...and life.

the KTX was fully booked with reservations, so we board the train without a seat and find space in between cars to place our bags and make our way through the 3-hour ride to Seoul.
good bye...the girl was crying the whole time.
dad a bit tired
KTX ticket inspector
we don't get to do much in Seoul.  we stay at a nice guest house with a Japanese speaking owner named Mr. Kim, and roam around the city for a bit to grab a nice dinner.  Seoul seems to me like any other big city in Japan.  the feel of the streets, the neon, the conbinis, the stations, are all pretty much the same.  the writing is different, the smell (garlic!) is different, and the young girls and guys here tend to have fuller bodies.  i realized this first within the girls (duh), they seemed to not be as skinny as Japanese girls.  then i realized that the same was true for the guys here.  i'm assuming that it's the mandatory military service that makes the men here stronger, and in turn affects the whole culture and everyone's understanding + preference of the body.

the next morning, as i was researching how to get to the Incheon ferry port on the shared computer, i catch a "Lonely Planet: China" book sitting on the corner of the desk next to mine.
"you going to China also?"
"yeah."
"when?"
"today, on a ferry."
"serious?  my dad and i are doing the same too!  which ferry?"
"the one to Weihai."
"oh, we're going to Shidao...wait, Weihai is like right next door to Shidao.  let's just catch the same one!"
"sure."
and so we make a new friend, Luke.  Luke is a 24 year-old from Ireland, and he's been in Korea for 2 years(?) now, and can read + speak the language.  let me tell you, having him around made our trip to the ferry port and beyond much much easier.
Luke
Korean couples like to wear matching clothes
cute
got on the ferry at Incheon, and although the bathroom smells intensely of urine, we enjoy the beds, the Korean cafeteria food, the amazing sunset, and beer at the empty bar lounge.
quoting Luke: "longest bridge in the world"
cafeteria food (amazing and cheap)

smoking room
BEER
my bed
bubai Korea.  and i was right, by the end of the trip, i didn't smell the garlic in trains anymore.

Monday, March 19, 2012

Day 11: in China

Made it from Korea (Incheon) to China (Shidao) via a 25-hour ferry, and now heading to shanghai.

Unlike Japan and Korea, China is huge...thought traveling from city to city would be a breeze, but my guess was so wrong.

The next 24 hours will be spent on this bus. A bit cramped, but I guess better than having to sit up straight...guess it's also time to catch up on my journal.

I am doing well.

Sent from iphone.

Friday, March 16, 2012

Day 4, 5, 6, 7: the difference

there's one huge difference between me and my dad.  this difference often causes me frustration and stress, while it makes my dad feel like he's always causing trouble.

to sum it up, here's (what i think) the two takes are on eachother:
Yuta: "gosh, dad's sooo lazy and unaware about things...that's why we end up having to change our schedule to wait for his India tourist visa!  it even caused us an extra 6,000 yen to get us into Korea. dad, shape up a bit and think ahead."
Toshi: "gosh, Yuta is sooo anal.  it's a journey!  why can't he just take it chill and go with the flow?"

on Day 5, i got us the wrong tickets out of Ishikawa into Kyoto.
the ticket that i wanted was 30 minutes earlier than the one in hand, and when i suggested we should go back and change it, dad goes "eh, it's fine, lets just sit and wait at a cafe."
and so we did with my sister Julia, who drove us to the station.

after about 10-15 minutes or so, we see Julia's father-in-law (Akitoshi Asano) and mother-in-law (Rite) running into the station to try and catch a glimpse of us to say "good bye".  we had been in Ishikawa for 2 nights, but since Akitoshi was on a business trip, we hadn't been able to see him.

Dad, Rite, and Akitoshi

after chatting it up for 15 minutes, we say our good byes and head up to the platform.  as my dad and i were roaming around looking for our train number, a distinguished looking man, well in his 60's, asks us "i overheard you talking in the cafe, you going to Nepal?  i've been going there every year for the last 16 years.  i have contacts and information if you need."

so the man and my dad sit down during the 2-hour ride to Kyoto discussing our Nepal portion of the journey.  supposedly dad gained some really nice information.

Dad and Nepal-man

AND THEN IT HITS ME!
wait! so what if dad was anal like me, and we decided to take the earlier train, just cuz it seemed more "practical"?  then surely we wouldn't have been able to see Akitoshi, nor would the Nepal-man have caught us to give helpful information.

suddenly, i had this realization that lifted so much weight off of my shoulders.
this is dad's dream.  i am helping to make it happen.
i'm not the one in charge, nor responsible for anything that goes wrong.
we'll just go with the flow, and see what unfolds.
so glad that i had this revelation prior to departing Japan.

tomorrow we set off to South Korea.  a place that dad nor i have never been to.
a bit scared...but also that much excited.

some other pics from Day 4-7 (sorry, unedited):
with Tetsu and friends, Kyoto

Tetsu and fisherman, Kyoto

with Nina, Osaka

Nina, Osaka

Kokura Gion Taiko, Kokura (Fukuoka)

Market, Kokura

Market-street, Kokura

Smoking Lounge, Kokura